I'd really love to see that.

Those life axioms are hard in a way to find, since they've been there all that time, so it's like trying to see me to see what they are. *laughs*

Rereading this in the morning... yeah... that system analysis for others is something I find myself doing, too. Especially if a misunderstanding has made it go wrong... I like your idea of making it fair by *understanding* it. That's huge.