"Perfectionism has nothing to do with getting it right. It has nothing to do with high standards. Perfectionism is a refusal to let yourself move ahead." ~ Jennifer White
Or being afraid to get it wrong, which is the same thing, only with a different twist. The minx tends to be very much a perfectionist -- in the sense that the fear of Being Wrong keeps her from even trying...
She's doing less of that, though sometimes I have to bully her into it. Such as spelling.
Yeah. Jet has a smidge of that, too. I wonder if it's just teaching that gets some people to "get over it" and others to use it as a way to get ulcers their whole lives...
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Date: 2006-01-05 01:25 am (UTC)She's doing less of that, though sometimes I have to bully her into it. Such as spelling.
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Date: 2006-01-05 05:32 am (UTC)I keep trying to learn better habits. :-)